The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny

Thriving Through Challenges: Alex Charfen's Secrets Revealed

Have you ever wondered what it truly means to be an entrepreneur? Dive into this episode of the Happy Millions Show, where we had the incredible Alex Charfen join us for an eye-opening conversation! From the moment Alex started sharing his journey, it was like a rollercoaster ride of inspiration and insight. His raw authenticity and passion for helping entrepreneurs shine through as he shares his personal experiences and invaluable lessons learned along the way.
 
Alex breaks down the true meaning of being an entrepreneur, dispelling the myth of perfection and revealing the real grit behind building a successful business. He shares stories from his own life, highlighting the importance of embracing challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth. It's a refreshing perspective that reminds us that imperfection is not only okay but essential for progress.
 
But it's not all about business with Alex. He takes us on a journey through his travels, from the awe-inspiring sights of Greece to the heartwarming moments of giving back. His zest for life and genuine care for others shine through, leaving us feeling inspired and ready to tackle whatever challenges come our way. Tune in now to catch this enlightening conversation and discover how you can build a life and business you truly love!
 
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introduction
00:04:08 Entrepreneurial Roller Coaster
00:08:30 The Truth vs. Lies in Entrepreneurship
00:18:58 Being Radically Transparent
00:35:59 The Religious Quest
00:44:17 Personal Ownership and Responsibility
01:02:25 Fun Q&A
QUOTES
 
“I think what a lot of people don't realize is that the responsibility of earning money is massive. And the responsibility of running a million dollar company or a multimillion dollar company or an eight-figure company is huge.”
 
“Anybody who's in the entrepreneurial world has to understand that there's no point where you just are happy all the time and everything's great, that never happens. And if anybody tells you it has happened to them, they're either not being honest with you or not being honest with themselves. Because entrepreneurship is a journey and it's a journey of overcoming, it's a journey of massive transitions almost constantly in your life.”
 
“I think that one of the big mistakes that we make in the entrepreneurial world is the only thing we used to keep score is money. Like, if you're making money or not making money, then you're winning or losing. And some of the people who are making money that I know today, who are the most successful people that I know in the world, like the most successful, became successful after a period of tremendous downturn and learning the lessons and understand.”
 
“As entrepreneurs, if you get too caught up in this system created around entrepreneurship today, that will become your biggest distraction.”
 
“What matters to me is living a life where I compare myself to myself and not other people. And I think one of the biggest diseases in entrepreneurship is comparing your weaknesses to other people's strengths and then trying to move on from there.”
 
“Today we're working towards a business of massive impact and the financials are going to be there because they are every time we have a massive impact, but it's not so much about money anymore. I know it'll be there and I know it'll be the multi-million dollar, maybe eight-figure, maybe even nine-figure business with what we're putting together. But the goal is doing it in a way that we are really excited about and having fun.”
 
“One of my biggest challenges to grow a business is to grow in spite of my immediate environment. And that's been one of the biggest things that I've had to learn to overcome, to still be able to get out there and do what is right for me in spite of it.”
 
“I think that one of the biggest things we deal with as entrepreneurs is doubt and this question of ‘can I do this, you know, will I be able to do this? Should I keep doing this?’ And I think it's one of those things that holds a lot of entrepreneurs back. In fact, I think it's one of those things that keeps a lot of entrepreneurs from being transparent and being real. It’s because we feel that massive imposter syndrome of like.”

Living Your True Purpose: Beyond Gender Expectations - with Nicole Kalil

SUMMARY:
In this episode, we have an extraordinary guest who is set to inspire and empower you, Nicole Kalil, an in-demand speaker, best-selling author of Validation Is For Parking, respected coach, and the dynamic host of the “This Is Woman’s Work” podcast. 
 
With a passion for eliminating gender expectations and redefining what “woman’s work” truly means, Nicole’s mission is to help women live their true purpose and be who they are meant to be without constraints. She shared her unique approach to building confidence, coupled with actionable tools and insights, which sets her apart in a world full of experts.
 
Nicole also shared her journey to being a renowned coach who has influenced thousands of women in business. We delve into her insights on the social challenges that women face in leadership roles and how these barriers can be overcome. We also discussed the added pressures women experience, such as balancing professional success with personal responsibilities, and how redefining success from a personal perspective can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
 
Get ready for an inspiring conversation on how to achieve success without sacrificing what matters most! Nicole’s genuine and actionable advice will help you understand the importance of authenticity in pursuing success.If you're striving to make millions, finding balance in your personal and professional life, or trying to break free from societal expectations, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on this empowering episode!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Nicole Kalil and Her Mission
00:08:54 The Connection Between Confidence and Clarity
00:11:43 Trusting Yourself
00:16:55 One Thing Nicole is Most Passionate About
00:20:11 What Success Truly Means
00:25:37 The Journey of Becoming A Better Version
00:37:30 A Spiritual Experience
00:40:33 The Enemy Of Confidence is Perfectionism
00:48:44 A Piece of Advice
00:50:24 Fun Fast Q&A
QUOTES
 
“Eliminate gender expectations so that  we can all show up in our lives, in our worlds, in our  work as who we authentically are and live our purposes and be who we're meant to be without the constraints, the  expectations, the limitations that the packaging that we come in  often lends itself to.”
 
“It's this knowing who you are, owning who you're not, embracing all of it. I think when you trust yourself and you get quiet and you really listen to what matters and what you know to be true and all of that, it creates clarity.”
 
“When people say, listen to the whispers of the universe or trust God, like whatever your belief system is, it can be one of the most petrifying but also one of the most liberating experiences.”
 
“Confidence is inside of me, and it's my choice whether or not I want to connect to it, whether or not I want to listen to it, whether or not I want to choose to trust myself. My hope from an action perspective, and when I speak, I would put myself more in the tactical  side.”
 
“Success to me is first and foremost, having personal health. So that's mental, emotional and physical.  So taking care of my mind. Taking care of my body. Feeling and experiencing and allowing all my feelings, but not letting them own me.  So I like the expression, ‘it's okay to have your feelings. They just can't have you.’”
 
“I love who I am, and I'm not trying to convince people to like me.”
 
“The more I'm up to something that matters, the bigger stage that I'm operating in and from, the more there are going to be people who don't like me.”
 
“So there might be more haters, but there are more lovers as well. Well, and the more you show up as yourself, the more authentic you are, the easier you make it for your people to find you.”
 
“Perfectionism is the enemy of confidence. It's an unachievable, unattainable goal that we have no hopes other than to fall short on. “
 
“Nobody creates confidence without messiness.  Nobody creates a life worth living without making some mistakes along  the way.”

From Burnout to Breakthrough: Nathan Chan’s Success Story

Welcome to a transformative episode of "The Happy Millions Show"! Get ready to dive deep into the journey of Nathan Chan, the brilliant mind behind Foundr. Nathan takes us on an exciting ride from his days in IT support to the zenith of entrepreneurial success. Along the way, he draws inspiration from business world giants, showcasing how pivotal influences shape our paths.
 
In this enlightening conversation, Nathan lays bare his passion for interviewing trailblazing entrepreneurs and the profound impact it has on his own growth. But it's not all smooth sailing. Nathan candidly discusses the shadows of burnout and the crucial role of mental well-being in this journey, shedding light on the often-neglected side of success.
 
As we journey further, Nathan unveils the evolution of Foundr and his ambitious blueprint for the future. From crafting a powerhouse team to fostering growth through an advisory board, his insights illuminate the roadmap to entrepreneurial triumph. This episode is also packed with advice for visionaries, underscoring the importance of purpose-driven endeavors, mental fortitude, and savoring every step of the journey.
 
Don't miss out on the invaluable insights and inspiration waiting for you in this enlightening episode! Tune in, take notes, and let's embark on this transformative journey together!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Nathan Chan
00:03:31 Enjoyable Moments at Foundr
00:05:23 What Makes Renowned People Say ‘Yes’ to Foundr
00:08:32 The Vision and The Challenges
00:16:15 Passion in Business
00:23:55 Importance of Hiring the Right People
00:33:52 Discussion on Unhappy Millionaires and Mental Health
00:40:09 The Future of Foundr
QUOTES
 
“When I started Foundr, it started with just wanting to do work I was passionate about. And as long as I can keep doing that and just having fun. But business isn't fun. Like, you know, you want to talk about tough times. Last year was one of my hardest years in business. It was really tough. But for the most part, I love to build, I love to create, and I want to maximize life. I want to make the most out of life. And I think there's something very special around my job and what I get to do. And I think I'm all about once in a lifetime experiences, I'm all about maximizing life and making the most of it. And I think I'm on that path.”
 
“There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but you have to really, really focus on really changing that up. I think life is too short to do things you don't enjoy.”
 
“It's always a work in progress, but to be more disciplined that you can't do everything. You need to have a plan by having, in the beginning of the company, you need to take people on a journey, you need to get that by, you need to get that alignment and take everyone with you. that side of thing is, I believe, a reflection of entrepreneurial maturity, and what is realistic, what is not and what is achievable and what is not.”
 
“Maybe the definition of a millionaire needs to be rethought, maybe just because your business is turning over, a million dollars in annual revenue, but you're only making a hundred thousand in net profit. And that's what you pay yourself as your salary. Like maybe that's in that person classifies themselves as a millionaire. Maybe they're not.”
 
"If you always do what you always done, you always get what you always got."
 
“You could achieve this grandiose, crazy vision of helping building a platform that helps a lot of people at scale. But what's the point if your mental health ain't right? There you go. Like what's the point? There's a truth bomb. Like what's the point? There is no point. So you've got to look after yourself and you've got to really try. Just connect with what you're doing and really make sure that it's what you want to do.”

Reclaiming Your Crown: A Journey to Queenhood with Gina DeVee

In this electrifying episode of our podcast, we delve deep into the inspiring journey of Gina DeVee, the visionary author behind the book "The Audacity to be Queen" and founder of “Divine Living.” Gina's narrative of evolving from a struggling psychotherapist to a powerhouse entrepreneur is not just inspiring but a testament to the audacity we all possess within us. With her magnetic energy, Gina illuminates the path towards embracing the audacity to be queen in our own lives.
 
Central to Gina's philosophy is the notion that being a queen isn't about donning a crown, but embodying qualities of fierceness, boldness, and authenticity. It's about reclaiming our power, regardless of societal expectations, and stepping boldly into our true selves. In a world often pressuring us to conform, Gina's message is a rallying call to embrace our authenticity unapologetically.
 
Gina's wisdom reminds us that the audacity to be queen lies within each of us. By prioritizing self-care, joy, and community, we not only nurture our own well-being but also ignite the spark of transformation within. So, listen up to this powerful conversation with Gina, embrace our audacity, and step into our rightful place as queens of our own lives!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Gina DeVee
00:02:51 Truth about consciousness
00:06:56 Gina DeVee’s journey
00:10:18 The Vision
00:16:31 Reprogramming the subconscious mind
00:19:57 A glimmer of hope
00:24:35 Two keys to build a life you love
QUOTES
 
"I think that it takes audacity for all of us to be our true selves."
 
"One of the greatest blessings of living at this time on the planet is that never has there been a more collective consciousness of people deeply inquiring what is their life about, what are they meant for, what else is possible, regardless of the money, not including it, but not based on it as heavily as it was in the past. People are valuing and prioritizing joy and play and community and living far more than they have been working. So to me, it's very much a spiritual surrender into the unknown and taking great risk… but just getting so far out of the realm of the known so that they can be who they always originally came here to be. "
 
" Spiritual work and letting your yes be yes and your no be no and really being the queen of your life actually manifests tangible concrete results in the human plane as well. Part of what I love about the archetype of Queen is that she's not all feminine. She's really the masterful blend of the masculine and the feminine.
 
“I see women getting really great at being feminine. I see women prioritizing themselves. I see women being far less exhausted and much more vibrant. I see women modeling to the world a different way of doing life and business and money making and politics and government and medicine. I see the feminine principles far more aligned with spiritual principles… And I think that we could use some higher ways right now."
 
“We are so resilient and we bounce back so quickly. Sometimes it's you're one meditation away, maybe you're one podcast away, maybe you're one chapter in a book away. I'm not saying to heal everything or fix everything, but to at least start to get that glimmer of hope again. And when you have one candle and that has a little light and another candle joins with it, you know, after a while, it does become a blaze. So be very, very conscious to filling yourself up with all the right stuff.”
 
“You're not alone and no one is exempt, no matter what their Instagram looks like, no matter what a story you've made up about them, they too have a story of overcoming. And I think it's just time for us all to focus on ourselves and who it is we're meant to be and stop pretending that we're less than or that we're little or that we can't and just be reminded of how powerful we are.”

Mastering the Art of Work-Life Harmony: Brenda and Mike's Journey

SUMMARY:
In this episode of the Happy Millions Show, for the first time ever, we have a power couple as our amazing guests to share how they found remarkable success in both their personal and professional lives. Meet Mike Schmidt, a man who successfully launched his agency as a 22-year-old college graduate and built his business from a one-man business to a 20+ person agency. And her wife, Brenda Schmidt, the Kickass Modern Mom founder & movement leader in deeply enhancing the Modern Motherhood Experience.
 
In this candid conversation, we gleaned invaluable insights on achieving balance and fulfillment. Mike and Brenda shared their journey of building highly successful businesses while prioritizing their well-being, relationships, and achieving sobriety. They emphasized the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences and seeking alignment in all aspects of life. Their story serves as a beacon of inspiration for entrepreneurs who aspire to not only thrive financially but also lead fulfilling lives and grow professionally.
 
Mike and Brenda highlighted the significance of continuous growth, self-improvement, and the power to take control of your life. Listen as we discuss how to prioritize your passion, invest in personal development, and seek out supportive communities. This episode resonates deeply with those who are striving for success beyond monetary gains, reminding us that true wealth lies in living a life of purpose, joy, and abundance. 
 
Tune in and discover the proof that happiness and success go hand in hand!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Mike and Brenda Schmidt
 
00:01:36 The Non-Negotiables
 
00:05:14 Handling Relationships and Effective Communication
 
00:14:33 The Alcohol Story
 
00:23:27 Benefits of Sobriety
 
00:34:44 Finding Personal and Professional Balance
 
00:41:18 The Power of Connection and Nurturing Relationships
 
00:44:06 Continuous Growth and Self-improvement
 
01:00:24 Advice for Miserable Millionaires
QUOTES
 
"There's so much abundance around us and that there are people who have tapped into that. I would have to say, be around people that are like that, that have the millions or have the things and are like that, and ask them questions or ask them what books they're reading, or if they worked with a coach or a therapist or somebody, who are the people that are putting stuff into their brains, or who programmed their brains to think this way.”
 
"I think sometimes when people get stuck in the suck, it's because they get so focused on a certain goal and they kind of lose track of what the overall vision is.”
 
“They get so focused on success that they feel kind of like when they reach something is whenever they're going to go back and focus on those other aspects of their life. But it all needs the ‘focus.’ Like you got to work on little bits of all those pieces all the time."
 
“If you want a happy marriage, make sure you have friends who have happy marriages. Period. That's it. If you want a successful business where you love what you're doing, be around people who have successful businesses, who love what they're doing.”
 
“It's okay to hit the delete key on things that aren't working for you, whether that be alcohol, whether that be friends, or whether it be a book you got three quarters of the way through and you're like, this thing sucks. Delete, right? And editing as you go along 'cause like if you're gonna design the thing, you're not gonna get it right the first time. You gotta keep editing.”