The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny

Living Your True Purpose: Beyond Gender Expectations - with Nicole Kalil

SUMMARY:
In this episode, we have an extraordinary guest who is set to inspire and empower you, Nicole Kalil, an in-demand speaker, best-selling author of Validation Is For Parking, respected coach, and the dynamic host of the “This Is Woman’s Work” podcast. 
 
With a passion for eliminating gender expectations and redefining what “woman’s work” truly means, Nicole’s mission is to help women live their true purpose and be who they are meant to be without constraints. She shared her unique approach to building confidence, coupled with actionable tools and insights, which sets her apart in a world full of experts.
 
Nicole also shared her journey to being a renowned coach who has influenced thousands of women in business. We delve into her insights on the social challenges that women face in leadership roles and how these barriers can be overcome. We also discussed the added pressures women experience, such as balancing professional success with personal responsibilities, and how redefining success from a personal perspective can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
 
Get ready for an inspiring conversation on how to achieve success without sacrificing what matters most! Nicole’s genuine and actionable advice will help you understand the importance of authenticity in pursuing success.If you're striving to make millions, finding balance in your personal and professional life, or trying to break free from societal expectations, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on this empowering episode!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Nicole Kalil and Her Mission
00:08:54 The Connection Between Confidence and Clarity
00:11:43 Trusting Yourself
00:16:55 One Thing Nicole is Most Passionate About
00:20:11 What Success Truly Means
00:25:37 The Journey of Becoming A Better Version
00:37:30 A Spiritual Experience
00:40:33 The Enemy Of Confidence is Perfectionism
00:48:44 A Piece of Advice
00:50:24 Fun Fast Q&A
QUOTES
 
“Eliminate gender expectations so that  we can all show up in our lives, in our worlds, in our  work as who we authentically are and live our purposes and be who we're meant to be without the constraints, the  expectations, the limitations that the packaging that we come in  often lends itself to.”
 
“It's this knowing who you are, owning who you're not, embracing all of it. I think when you trust yourself and you get quiet and you really listen to what matters and what you know to be true and all of that, it creates clarity.”
 
“When people say, listen to the whispers of the universe or trust God, like whatever your belief system is, it can be one of the most petrifying but also one of the most liberating experiences.”
 
“Confidence is inside of me, and it's my choice whether or not I want to connect to it, whether or not I want to listen to it, whether or not I want to choose to trust myself. My hope from an action perspective, and when I speak, I would put myself more in the tactical  side.”
 
“Success to me is first and foremost, having personal health. So that's mental, emotional and physical.  So taking care of my mind. Taking care of my body. Feeling and experiencing and allowing all my feelings, but not letting them own me.  So I like the expression, ‘it's okay to have your feelings. They just can't have you.’”
 
“I love who I am, and I'm not trying to convince people to like me.”
 
“The more I'm up to something that matters, the bigger stage that I'm operating in and from, the more there are going to be people who don't like me.”
 
“So there might be more haters, but there are more lovers as well. Well, and the more you show up as yourself, the more authentic you are, the easier you make it for your people to find you.”
 
“Perfectionism is the enemy of confidence. It's an unachievable, unattainable goal that we have no hopes other than to fall short on. “
 
“Nobody creates confidence without messiness.  Nobody creates a life worth living without making some mistakes along  the way.”

From Burnout to Breakthrough: Nathan Chan’s Success Story

Welcome to a transformative episode of "The Happy Millions Show"! Get ready to dive deep into the journey of Nathan Chan, the brilliant mind behind Foundr. Nathan takes us on an exciting ride from his days in IT support to the zenith of entrepreneurial success. Along the way, he draws inspiration from business world giants, showcasing how pivotal influences shape our paths.
 
In this enlightening conversation, Nathan lays bare his passion for interviewing trailblazing entrepreneurs and the profound impact it has on his own growth. But it's not all smooth sailing. Nathan candidly discusses the shadows of burnout and the crucial role of mental well-being in this journey, shedding light on the often-neglected side of success.
 
As we journey further, Nathan unveils the evolution of Foundr and his ambitious blueprint for the future. From crafting a powerhouse team to fostering growth through an advisory board, his insights illuminate the roadmap to entrepreneurial triumph. This episode is also packed with advice for visionaries, underscoring the importance of purpose-driven endeavors, mental fortitude, and savoring every step of the journey.
 
Don't miss out on the invaluable insights and inspiration waiting for you in this enlightening episode! Tune in, take notes, and let's embark on this transformative journey together!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Nathan Chan
00:03:31 Enjoyable Moments at Foundr
00:05:23 What Makes Renowned People Say ‘Yes’ to Foundr
00:08:32 The Vision and The Challenges
00:16:15 Passion in Business
00:23:55 Importance of Hiring the Right People
00:33:52 Discussion on Unhappy Millionaires and Mental Health
00:40:09 The Future of Foundr
QUOTES
 
“When I started Foundr, it started with just wanting to do work I was passionate about. And as long as I can keep doing that and just having fun. But business isn't fun. Like, you know, you want to talk about tough times. Last year was one of my hardest years in business. It was really tough. But for the most part, I love to build, I love to create, and I want to maximize life. I want to make the most out of life. And I think there's something very special around my job and what I get to do. And I think I'm all about once in a lifetime experiences, I'm all about maximizing life and making the most of it. And I think I'm on that path.”
 
“There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but you have to really, really focus on really changing that up. I think life is too short to do things you don't enjoy.”
 
“It's always a work in progress, but to be more disciplined that you can't do everything. You need to have a plan by having, in the beginning of the company, you need to take people on a journey, you need to get that by, you need to get that alignment and take everyone with you. that side of thing is, I believe, a reflection of entrepreneurial maturity, and what is realistic, what is not and what is achievable and what is not.”
 
“Maybe the definition of a millionaire needs to be rethought, maybe just because your business is turning over, a million dollars in annual revenue, but you're only making a hundred thousand in net profit. And that's what you pay yourself as your salary. Like maybe that's in that person classifies themselves as a millionaire. Maybe they're not.”
 
"If you always do what you always done, you always get what you always got."
 
“You could achieve this grandiose, crazy vision of helping building a platform that helps a lot of people at scale. But what's the point if your mental health ain't right? There you go. Like what's the point? There's a truth bomb. Like what's the point? There is no point. So you've got to look after yourself and you've got to really try. Just connect with what you're doing and really make sure that it's what you want to do.”

Reclaiming Your Crown: A Journey to Queenhood with Gina DeVee

In this electrifying episode of our podcast, we delve deep into the inspiring journey of Gina DeVee, the visionary author behind the book "The Audacity to be Queen" and founder of “Divine Living.” Gina's narrative of evolving from a struggling psychotherapist to a powerhouse entrepreneur is not just inspiring but a testament to the audacity we all possess within us. With her magnetic energy, Gina illuminates the path towards embracing the audacity to be queen in our own lives.
 
Central to Gina's philosophy is the notion that being a queen isn't about donning a crown, but embodying qualities of fierceness, boldness, and authenticity. It's about reclaiming our power, regardless of societal expectations, and stepping boldly into our true selves. In a world often pressuring us to conform, Gina's message is a rallying call to embrace our authenticity unapologetically.
 
Gina's wisdom reminds us that the audacity to be queen lies within each of us. By prioritizing self-care, joy, and community, we not only nurture our own well-being but also ignite the spark of transformation within. So, listen up to this powerful conversation with Gina, embrace our audacity, and step into our rightful place as queens of our own lives!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Gina DeVee
00:02:51 Truth about consciousness
00:06:56 Gina DeVee’s journey
00:10:18 The Vision
00:16:31 Reprogramming the subconscious mind
00:19:57 A glimmer of hope
00:24:35 Two keys to build a life you love
QUOTES
 
"I think that it takes audacity for all of us to be our true selves."
 
"One of the greatest blessings of living at this time on the planet is that never has there been a more collective consciousness of people deeply inquiring what is their life about, what are they meant for, what else is possible, regardless of the money, not including it, but not based on it as heavily as it was in the past. People are valuing and prioritizing joy and play and community and living far more than they have been working. So to me, it's very much a spiritual surrender into the unknown and taking great risk… but just getting so far out of the realm of the known so that they can be who they always originally came here to be. "
 
" Spiritual work and letting your yes be yes and your no be no and really being the queen of your life actually manifests tangible concrete results in the human plane as well. Part of what I love about the archetype of Queen is that she's not all feminine. She's really the masterful blend of the masculine and the feminine.
 
“I see women getting really great at being feminine. I see women prioritizing themselves. I see women being far less exhausted and much more vibrant. I see women modeling to the world a different way of doing life and business and money making and politics and government and medicine. I see the feminine principles far more aligned with spiritual principles… And I think that we could use some higher ways right now."
 
“We are so resilient and we bounce back so quickly. Sometimes it's you're one meditation away, maybe you're one podcast away, maybe you're one chapter in a book away. I'm not saying to heal everything or fix everything, but to at least start to get that glimmer of hope again. And when you have one candle and that has a little light and another candle joins with it, you know, after a while, it does become a blaze. So be very, very conscious to filling yourself up with all the right stuff.”
 
“You're not alone and no one is exempt, no matter what their Instagram looks like, no matter what a story you've made up about them, they too have a story of overcoming. And I think it's just time for us all to focus on ourselves and who it is we're meant to be and stop pretending that we're less than or that we're little or that we can't and just be reminded of how powerful we are.”

Mastering the Art of Work-Life Harmony: Brenda and Mike's Journey

SUMMARY:
In this episode of the Happy Millions Show, for the first time ever, we have a power couple as our amazing guests to share how they found remarkable success in both their personal and professional lives. Meet Mike Schmidt, a man who successfully launched his agency as a 22-year-old college graduate and built his business from a one-man business to a 20+ person agency. And her wife, Brenda Schmidt, the Kickass Modern Mom founder & movement leader in deeply enhancing the Modern Motherhood Experience.
 
In this candid conversation, we gleaned invaluable insights on achieving balance and fulfillment. Mike and Brenda shared their journey of building highly successful businesses while prioritizing their well-being, relationships, and achieving sobriety. They emphasized the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences and seeking alignment in all aspects of life. Their story serves as a beacon of inspiration for entrepreneurs who aspire to not only thrive financially but also lead fulfilling lives and grow professionally.
 
Mike and Brenda highlighted the significance of continuous growth, self-improvement, and the power to take control of your life. Listen as we discuss how to prioritize your passion, invest in personal development, and seek out supportive communities. This episode resonates deeply with those who are striving for success beyond monetary gains, reminding us that true wealth lies in living a life of purpose, joy, and abundance. 
 
Tune in and discover the proof that happiness and success go hand in hand!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Mike and Brenda Schmidt
 
00:01:36 The Non-Negotiables
 
00:05:14 Handling Relationships and Effective Communication
 
00:14:33 The Alcohol Story
 
00:23:27 Benefits of Sobriety
 
00:34:44 Finding Personal and Professional Balance
 
00:41:18 The Power of Connection and Nurturing Relationships
 
00:44:06 Continuous Growth and Self-improvement
 
01:00:24 Advice for Miserable Millionaires
QUOTES
 
"There's so much abundance around us and that there are people who have tapped into that. I would have to say, be around people that are like that, that have the millions or have the things and are like that, and ask them questions or ask them what books they're reading, or if they worked with a coach or a therapist or somebody, who are the people that are putting stuff into their brains, or who programmed their brains to think this way.”
 
"I think sometimes when people get stuck in the suck, it's because they get so focused on a certain goal and they kind of lose track of what the overall vision is.”
 
“They get so focused on success that they feel kind of like when they reach something is whenever they're going to go back and focus on those other aspects of their life. But it all needs the ‘focus.’ Like you got to work on little bits of all those pieces all the time."
 
“If you want a happy marriage, make sure you have friends who have happy marriages. Period. That's it. If you want a successful business where you love what you're doing, be around people who have successful businesses, who love what they're doing.”
 
“It's okay to hit the delete key on things that aren't working for you, whether that be alcohol, whether that be friends, or whether it be a book you got three quarters of the way through and you're like, this thing sucks. Delete, right? And editing as you go along 'cause like if you're gonna design the thing, you're not gonna get it right the first time. You gotta keep editing.”

The Keys in Facing the Highs & Lows of Business and Life - with Michael Cooch

SUMMARY:
Welcome to another episode of the Happy Millions Show with our amazing guest, none other than Mike Cooch! This episode is a rollercoaster of inspiration and raw honesty that you won't want to miss. 
 
As we delve into the heart of entrepreneurship, we cut through the noise and get straight to the core of what it means to build a business and life you love. With a refreshing focus on real experiences in life and business, we explore the misconceptions around financial success and the importance of finding joy in the journey. Mike's candid insights shed light on the highs and lows of the entrepreneurial roller coaster, offering invaluable wisdom for anyone navigating the path to success.
 
But this conversation goes beyond business—it delves into the essence of living a fulfilling and healthy life. From challenging societal norms to embracing the power of vulnerability, we tackle it all with authenticity and passion. Mike also shared his journey through divorce, revealing the profound impact entrepreneurship can have on every aspect of life. 
 
So whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or simply seeking inspiration to live life on your own terms, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to embrace their true potential and redefine success from the inside out.
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 - Introducing Mike Cooch
00:09:11 - Most Destructive Beliefs of Entrepreneurs
00:12:34 - Impact of Entrepreneurship on Personal Relationships
00:18:48 - Importance of Health and Well-being
00:26:27 - Discussion on Values and Priorities
 
00:32:46 - The Power of Leverage in Entrepreneurship
00:37:58 - Encouragement for Those Feeling Lost
00:45:45 - Fun Q&A
QUOTES
 
“As an entrepreneur, schedule, time, how I'm spending that time, that has always just been a very, very important issue to me and just kind of front and center to me.”
 
“I just think that whatever you're doing, whatever you can do today to make every day something that you're happy with and that the process of what you're doing, what you're building, whatever it is you're pursuing makes you just as happy as whatever that end goal is, I think is incredibly important.”
 
“I just think comparison to somebody else's benchmarks that they've established, that they've defined success and you're comparing what you've done or what you're doing to their definition of success, whether that's a mother, father, significant other, a peer that you see in the industry that you think is doing better than you. I mean, any of those types of things. I think that that's a major, major killer.”
 
“You can't argue that money is an absolutely critical factor in being able to live how you want to live and being able to enjoy things and do things for nice people and take care of people that you love and all that good stuff. It just is. But if you are basing your happiness on how much of that you have, it's a disaster.”
 
“Have as effective communication as possible and openness and, honesty abou everything that kind of comes along with it, I just think is critical if that relationship is going to survive.”
 
“Health, spiritual health, relationship… Mental health is so important for us entrepreneurs because you can go down some gnarly, gnarly, gnarly, dark pathways. And if you're not careful and again, like, physical health is so, it's just so important. So, and then integrity and then freedom after that, because you can't have freedom, spiritual freedom, emotional freedom, relationship freedom, and true like financial freedom if you've sold yourself out on the pathway up there, which is why integrity for me is front and center is my second value.”
 
“Leverage. It's amazing what you can do when you think differently. And I think that this is what, for us to live the lives that we actually want. I think a lot of people don't realize the power that they have if they just teach themselves to think differently.”
 
“Just lift your head up, like you said, go find other people that can give you a different perspective that know how to solve problems that you don't know how to solve yet. And just give yourself that chance to get out of your spin cycle that you're caught in. It can be such a eye-opening thing and I think can just give you that break that you need to find a new perspective, new strategies, all that good stuff that can you know, I don't know, just make what can seem like a very, very dark cloud and maybe something you can't escape from all of a sudden, you know, there's light and there's opportunity again.”