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Finding Balance: Navigating Trauma, Resilience, and Self-Awareness with Robb Bailey

In our latest podcast episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of self-discovery and healing with the amazing Robb Bailey. Robb opens up about his own struggles with feeling disconnected and battling inner demons, leading him to seek healing methods, including an Ibogaine treatment in Mexico.
 
During this profound experience, Robb found his inner voice silenced, allowing him to reconnect with his true self and inner child. Through holistic practices, he emerged feeling like a different person, free from the weight of past traumas and negative patterns.
 
Robb's story highlights the incredible power of authenticity and vulnerability in personal growth. By shedding societal expectations and embracing his true self, he experienced a profound shift in mindset and well-being.
 
Tune in to discover how Robb's journey of self-discovery can inspire you to embrace your authenticity and unlock your true potential! Don’t miss these gems!
 
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Robb Bailey
00:02:21 The Importance of Balance
00:06:21 Trauma and Subconscious Programming
00:15:43 Robb’s Psychedelic Experience
00:21:37 Physical Manifestation of Trauma
00:28:17 A Profound Inner Journey
00:35:53 Being Authentically Me
00:45:47 Inner Child vs. Negative Self-thoughts
00:50:04 Reconnection and Self-discovery
00:54:14 Financial Benefits of Self-improvement
00:58:37 Redefining Work-Life Balance
01:11:32 Personal Life Perimeters
01:18:46 Speaking to Future Self
QUOTES
 
"Getting through trauma builds what I would consider resilience, and I think that you know, a lot like an athlete gets better, the more they're challenged or a warrior gets more resilient, the more times they've seen battle and survived it. That is a positive outcome from trauma."
 
"The more that you can figure out how to be yourself and make it equally as repellent as attractive."
 
"When you're having negative self thoughts, that's you talking to your inner child and your inner child is going like, f*ck this noise."
 
"The denial of self is one of, in my opinion, one of the biggest diseases."
 
“Jailing ourselves by saying no we need to work eight or ten hour days as entrepreneurs to get this shit done and you have to be miserable in order to be rich and being rich is worth it like who fucking wrote that rule that's so stupid."
 
"I just want to be fully present for the rest of this ride every day, fully present."
 
“I think that people don't really give themselves license to show up as, and I'm not going to say authentic selves, because that is like way cliche, but I mean, just show up as like them and their power aligned, like speaking their truth unapologetically.”
 
“Knowingly or not, we make tons of decisions every day based off of expectations. So I'm someone who likes to challenge that just naturally out of the box. So I am on this journey of trying to be myself while also being this good husband, this good father sort of thing. But even then, I find myself putting myself, putting expectations on myself that are created out of thin air, because I think that that's what people expect of me, which is ludicrous when you say it out loud.”

The Power of Subconscious Programming in Achieving Happiness and Wealth - with Ray Higdon

SUMMARY:
Step into the captivating journey of Ray Higdon, once a workaholic now a beacon of inspiration for those seeking true fulfillment. In this transformative episode, Ray shares his raw experiences, from battling social anxiety to confronting childhood traumas, leading to an emotional awakening that reshaped his life.
 
Discover the power of emotional mastery as Ray unveils his journey, shedding light on how addressing past traumas can unlock boundless potential in both personal and professional spheres. Through his profound insights, Ray illustrates the transformative impact of breaking destructive patterns and embracing authentic joy.
 
Join us as Ray shares his secrets to success, from visualization techniques to manifesting tangible achievements, inspiring listeners to rewrite their own stories of triumph and fulfillment. This episode is not just a podcast; it's a masterclass in emotional intelligence and personal transformation, reminding us all that it's never too late to find true joy and purpose. Tune in now and embark on a journey of empowerment with Ray Higdon as your guide!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
[00:00:00] Introducing Ray Higdon
 
[00:02:41] Fixing people’s “fulfillment problem”
 
[00:06:43] How being on auto-pilot affected him being a father
 
[00:14:24] Showing up as a leader
 
[00:19:41] Transformational stories in the community
 
[00:25:41] Subconscious mind programming
 
[00:31:57] Becoming better at something I thought I was terrible at
 
[00:36:43] The power of visualization
 
[00:43:03] Overcoming adversity and building momentum
 
[00:47:26] Fast Q&A
QUOTES
 
“Become aware of your patterns and become aware of how you feel about you."
 
“One of the fastest paths to building a business and a life that you absolutely love is to get rid of your past trauma."
 
"He helped me realize that I was going from goal to goal, to goal, to goal, to goal, to goal, to goal, and absolutely zero joy, zero fulfillment."
 
"They're trying to get the reflection to change. It's their thoughts and beliefs and emotions that have created the reflection."
 
"Your problem is you have a subconscious belief that if you reach a certain level and you start getting more recognition, that's going to bring out the local people and they're going to try to bring you down on social media, which will bring shame to your living mother."
 
“Perspective is the speed quotient. That's what moves you from mule to magician."
 
“No matter where you are, you can create a life that you love. You really can."
 
"My life is really ran now by two mantras... help the person you used to be and be as brave as the people who need us."
 
"You're not your emotions. You're the master of your emotions and you can become the master of your emotions. And when you do that, you can completely change your life."
 
"Emotions are so important for you to get off autopilot and become aware of, but it's also the key, the ingredient for manifestation as well."

From Stuttering Start to Thriving Success with Todd Falcone

SUMMARY:
 
Step into the world of network marketing with Todd Falcone, The Fearless Networker, a renowned trainer whose unique approach to life and business is nothing short of inspiring. In this engaging conversation, Todd unravels the secrets to achieving real results in the dynamic realm of network marketing. As an expert you can trust, he fearlessly shares his philosophy of intertwining work and play, highlighting the importance of not being all work and no play.
 
Todd's journey unfolds like a captivating narrative, tracing his transformation from youthful naivete to the pinnacle of financial success in marketing. His story resonates with authenticity and resilience, proving that success is not just about the numbers but also about maintaining balance and savoring life's moments.
 
Join us for an exploration of Todd's wisdom and experience – a journey that promises inspiration, practical advice, and a renewed perspective on the possibilities that network marketing holds. Don't miss the chance to glean valuable insights from a trailblazer who fearlessly navigated the path to success while embracing authenticity and relishing life's joys!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
[00:00:00] Introducing Todd Falcone
[00:03:23] Maintaining work-life balance
[00:06:44] How Todd worked on his personal development 
[00:09:20] The start of Todd’s marketing journey
[00:13:02] Todd’s biggest supporter
[00:17:20] Behind-the-scenes of overcoming challenging times
[00:21:43] The value of life experiences
[00:24:13] Why people get into business
[00:27:05] Reasons to be grateful
[00:30:59] Fun Fast Q&A
QUOTES
 
“I've always lived my life by just playing and having a good time while I'm building my business.”
 
“In my opinion, life's too short not to live it and have a blast doing what you love doing. So you can have what they say your cake and eat it, too. You can build a huge, booming business. But I think you got to reward yourself. I don't think when you're on your deathbed, you're going to be like, man, gosh, I really, I'm so happy that I worked all those hours. Like if I'm on my deathbed, I'm like, I'm so glad I skied so many days and spent time with my family and went fishing and explored and did stuff. I mean, not that I don't work, but I blend work in with play all the time. And that's the way I've always been.”
 
“I just think it's . . you can't not work and be successful. But if all you do is work, I think that leads to a lot of unhappiness for a lot of people.”
 
“And so when I was about ready to pursue my career path, which I had no idea what my career path was going to be, I knew that I wanted to choose something that was going to make me good money. And I mean, if you're going to choose a job, you might as well like what you're doing. And then if you can choose a career path that you enjoy and pays you well, then that's a beautiful thing.”
 
“If you want to get good at something, you have to work at getting good at it. You don't just get good by thinking, oh, I wish I was good at this. I've practiced. I've worked on my craft. I've followed some of the most successful people. I've attended every possible event that I could attend. I’m paying very close attention to the biggest producers. What are they doing? What are they saying? How are they building it? And started to model the behavior of successful people. And over time, you go through a shift. Like how you get good at one thing is how you get good at anything. I mean, whether it's network marketing, skiing, fishing, tennis, it doesn't matter. It takes a commitment to getting good at it.”
 
“What am I freaking trying to prove? The only person you need to prove it to is yourself.”

The Importance Of Healing and Authenticity In Life and In Business - with Jeff Lerner

In this captivating episode of The Happy Millions Show, we delve into the remarkable story of Jeff Lerner, who is a self-made millionaire and the visionary mind behind ENTRE Institute, a groundbreaking education platform that has transformed the lives of over 200,000 individuals within just three years.
 
Our conversation with Jeff takes you on a profound journey of inspiration, resilience, and personal growth. We explore the key milestones that shaped his path to success and how he became a beacon of hope for millions worldwide. From humble beginnings to soaring heights, Jeff's story serves as a testament to the power of determination and unwavering belief in oneself.
 
But this episode doesn't just focus on Jeff's business accomplishments. We delve deeper into his philosophy and uncover the essence of his success—his unyielding commitment to healing and staying true to oneself. In a raw and heartfelt conversation, Jeff shares his personal insights on the transformative power of self-discovery, authenticity, and self-care.
 
Listeners will gain valuable insights and practical wisdom from Jeff's experiences. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or simply seeking inspiration to take control of your future, this episode promises to motivate and empower you to reshape your life.
 
Tune in to this episode as we unlock the secrets to achieving personal and financial fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that has the potential to transform your life!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00:00 Introducing Jeff Lerner
00:01:40 Importance of authenticity in business
00:05:03 Revenue vs. profit vs. happiness 
00:09:59 The best thing I did for my business
00:20:20 Who was Jeff Lerner 10 years ago vs. Jeff Lerner now
00:32:42 What you should do to experience the life that you love
00:39:35 Fun Fast Q&A  
00:47:12 Being yourself 
QUOTES
 
“I don't care how much money you have. I don't care how much subject matter expertise you have. I don't care how much anything else you have. A million other people have it too. The only thing they don't have is they're not you.”
 
“You can invest in things that free up your time.”
 
“People say money doesn't buy happiness. And I say the only people that say money doesn't buy happiness haven't given enough away.”
 
“The people who are really being themselves, being happy, making the money, making the profit, building the dream, building the future that they actually want are the people who are actually foundationally being themselves and doing the inner work so that they can outwardly create the life that they want.”
 
"The amount of work that it takes to unlearn and unthink and unwind everything that we were born into is massive. It takes most of us, what, 30, 40, 50 years to end up in therapy and we want it to take four sessions to work our way out of it. It's crazy."
 
“But if you will stop chasing it and you will start focusing on its prerequisite, which is value and service and solving problems for actual people who love the result that you help them achieve all the money in the world, all the money, not all the money you could ever need to find you.”

The Greatest Gifts You Can Give To Yourself - with Cody Jefferson

This episode is a raw, real, honest, and deep conversation with my dear friend, Cody Jefferson, who was a former pastor, a musician, a leader, and the founder of the million-dollar company called “Embrace The Lion.” 
 
He shared his journey of building his business from scratch, and how he was able to grow his business and amazingly change the lives of thousands of men! His journey was certainly not an easy path. There were tragedies, traumas, and burdens along the road that he had to face which he openly delved into in this episode.
 
You often see him on social media, but in this conversation, you will know more about the “behind-the-curtains Cody Jefferson” - the vulnerable side of this heavily-tattooed-musician.
 
This is indeed deeper than the most, so don’t miss this!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
0:00:00 Introducing Cody Jefferson
0:03:20 Business and Fulfillment
0:05:03 Instagram Cody vs. Behind-the-scene Cody
0:10:06 The Story Behind “Embrace The Lion”
0:18:19 Conversation About Trauma and Greater Gifts
0:22:53 Being Free From Other People’s Opinion 
0:28:40 How To Practice Effective Communication
0:35:30 Why People Choose A Complex Life
0:38:16 Simplified Life and Business
0:44:05 The Fun Part of Cody’s Life
0:47:26 Fast Q&A
QUOTES
 
"Purpose is just living your life with intention every single day towards something that's greater than yourself."
 
“I found that if you can get out of your way enough to seek the accountability and to seek the frameworks. Whether that be school, whether that be a coach, whatever the framing is, someone to hold you to who you're called to be and hold you to the accountability of what you say it is that you want, it can help you shorten that gap. Typically we can get out of our own way. A lot of the time it's just learning to bypass the emotional constructs in our brain to be able to do the things that we say we ought to do rather than getting stuck in procrastination, which is really just a response to stress and overwhelm.”
 
“The greater gift that you can give yourself is to be fully known. And to be fully experienced in all of your trauma and the complexities and all of your insecurities and all the ways in which you fear someone, like if they really knew me, giving yourself a gift of just releasing that and taking off the mask. I think that's the greatest gift we give ourselves and really allow ourselves to be fully seen and unlocked.”
 
“People are going to make judgments on you simply because they will never hear your side of the story.”
 
“Identity isn't a cute one line sentence on your Instagram bio. It's much deeper than that. It has to be.”
 
“Greatness isn't built on ease. But it doesn't have to be complicated. Love isn't complicated. It's not easy. But it's not complicated. We complicate things. Business isn't complicated. Business is metrics. It's numbers . . . We make things more complicated with our emotional attachment, with our assignment of a failure in business to a failure of our own identity and who we are. And we confuse the two because we meld and we mold and we merge who we are with what we do. And we don't create a discernible line of difference. And so when something doesn't work, we feel we don't work. And so we continue to play small. And we make things more complicated and justify that it's not us.”
 
"Give yourself grace. Just because things didn't work in the past doesn't mean that they won't work now. Just because you failed in the past doesn't mean that you're a failure now. Just because you haven't experienced the level of success that you're feeling is just out of reach doesn't mean that it's not possible for you."