The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny

How To Live Life 100% True To You with Internationally Renowned Dr. John Demartini

Dr. John DeMartini, an internationally published author, global educator, and the founder of a revolutionary tool in modern psychology stated boldly on this show “Your core values are represented by the life you live”.
 
When you hear that statement, what comes up for you? Many people think they know what is important to them, but then feel unfulfilled in their life and business. If that’s the case, then you aren’t truly living and working from your true values.
 
This ONE podcast can CHANGE your LIFE… !!
 
Dr. John Demartini’s mission and vision is to share knowledge and wisdom that empowers you to become a master of your own life and destiny. He joins me to share his thoughts on determining your core values, why that’s the first step to finding true fulfillment, and why he doesn’t believe in labeling people as a whole. Every word he speaks has power, if you listen and implement what he has to say.
 
We also explored the truth about being dyslexic and why it should be called a “gift” rather than a “curse.“”
 
Also, if you’ve been floundering under the weight of comparison or feeling unmotivated and unable to make positive steps forward, listen in and find out why.
 
Nothing is missing in you. Stop letting comparison hold you back.
 
Enjoy the show!
 
Show notes:
 
0:00:00 Dr. DeMartini’s Mission and Vision
0:02:04 A Message For Off-Kilter Entrepreneurs About Scaling Their Business and Building Lives They Love
0:11:16 Understanding What Your Personal Values Really Are
0:15:16 Definition of Void, How It Affects Our Life, and How To Fulfill It
0:18:31 Value Changes and Empowerment in Life and Business
0:22:00 How To Leave An Impact To The World
0:23:40 Moments You Are Most Proud Of
0:26:14 Contextualization of Labels and Personality Types
0:28:49 Exploring The Benefits of Living In Alignment With Your Highest Values
0:34:40 A Conversation With A Successful Entrepreneur 
0:39:06 Exploring Dyslexia as a Gift
0:44:19 Mindfulness And Living To Our Fullest Potential
0:46:10 Overcoming Fear of Public Speaking
0:50:28 Fast Talk: 14 Questions
0:57:42 How to Create a Business and Life You Absolutely Love
 
Quotes
 
0:10:18 “As long as you do low priority things you're going to devalue yourself.”
 
0:12:28 “What people do is they have a fantasy about what they want, but their life demonstrates what they really want. And so your hierarchy of values dictates your destiny and determines how you make decisions.”
 
0:13:42 “You got to start with an honest evaluation and true introspective of what you really value to start the ball rolling. Because if you need motivation to do what you say is important, what you say is important isn't truly important to you.”
 
0:17:37 “Part of the voids come from judgments that are conscious and unconscious splits. Because if you're conscious of things, you're infatuated with the positives and you're unconscious of the negatives, you're going to look up to it. If you're conscious of the negatives and unconscious of the positives, you're going to look down on it.”
 
0:30:17 “If I try to envy somebody else, imitate somebody else subordinate to somebody else's value system and expect to live outside my own core structure, I'm going to self depreciate. I'm going to hesitate. I'm going to procrastinate. I'm going to end up depreciating because I'm not living by what's true to me.”
 
0:30:37 “Unless you shift the values, which you can do if you try to live outside your highest values, you're automatically designed to self depreciate to get you frustrated enough to get you back on highest values and delegate the rest away.”
 
0:36:27 “If you give something and they make a perfectly fair, sustainable exchange equity theory, you maximize your fulfillment level. And you'll also not be narcissistically proud looking down, which is a facade, or altruistically looking up, which is a facade, you'll just be yourself. You'll be grateful. There's no pretense. You're just serving, doing what you love and being rewarded by it, and you feel grateful.”
 
0:37:30 “You're not going to avoid challenges, not going to avoid problems. You might as well select them and go after the ones that are deeply meaningful, that are inspiring for you to solve and help. And if you do, your fulfillment level will be up and you won't have distress. You'll have youth stress, which is wellness promoting, because now you're pursuing challenges that inspire you, which maximizes innovation, creativity and genius inside you. You have all those waiting to emerge, nothing's missing in you.”
 
0:41:18 “It's not an issue unless you make it an issue.”
 
0:44:42 “Let's own our hero and villain, our saints and our sinner, our virtues and our vices. Let's own it all. So nobody pushes our buttons on the outside that we have to seek or avoid. And we get to be present and exemplify our fullest potential with mindfulness.”
 
0:45:03 “Your mission is always an expression of what you value most.”
 
0:45:07 “And the only thing that clouds it is all the injected expectations from outer authorities that you've subordinated to. We're not here to live in the shadows of somebody. We're not here to put people on pedestals or pets. We're here to put them in our heart, stand on their shoulders and do something extraordinary on planet Earth.”

Happy Money, Spirituality, & Ultimate Success With Author and Keynote Speaker, Ken Honda

It is such an honor to learn from Japan's international best-selling author of Happy Money, Ken Honda, who has sold over 8 million books and has helped millions of people to find happiness while making happy money!
His mission is to turn your unhappy, angry, and sad money into happy money! And we’re going to discuss how he started this mission, and how you could keep on doing the thing that you absolutely love while making happy money.
In this conversation, Ken and I talked about the most important things you should know in order to be a happy millionaire, without sacrificing the things that make you happy and the things that matter the most to you. You also wouldn’t want to miss the fun fast Q&A we had where you could learn so much from the money and happiness expert himself!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00 - Introduction to Ken Honda
02:39 - What is Happy Money?
05:35 - Does making money makes people happy?
06:59 - The most amazing breakthroughs
12:27 - Everything is energy.
15:57 - Arigato Money Technique
21:50 - Money comes after your quality service.
25:26 - Definition of M_____
27:00 - The most fun things that Ken did to keep his business fun
29:29 - Get to know Ken’s wonderful family
33:49 - How being Japanese has served Ken in his mission
37:17 - The Happy Wallet Story - Inspiration of The Happy Money
40:39 - Ken’s favorite places in the world
42:38 - Fast Q&A
44:32 - Encouraging message from Ken Honda
 
QUOTES
 
“Happy money makes you smile when you receive it.” [02:43]
 
“Climbing a mountain is like making money. Because when you climb mountains, you can just, smile and sing together with a lot of friends. And you just enjoy every step of the way, with your family members, whoever you want to climb with. But a lot of people try to run up the mountains so fast. [They think] the fastest is better. So if you climb like that, if somebody, a friend, wants to climb with you, you kind of push them away, right? Or the family members, ‘no, I'll go first.’ And still, you can climb a mountain, which is more fun. But somehow, a lot of people think making money is a single sport, not a team sport. So that's why they end up being very miserable, and lonely and depressed.” [05:53]
 
“You don't have to change your financial situation to change how you feel.” [07:19]
 
“The key is to appreciate where you are, and then start moving up.” [09:30]
 
“If you get too curious about your great future, and if you cannot resist your curiosity, that's a time to act. It's not a belief. And when you just try it for fun, you will see the experience.” [10:27]
 
“You have to account for what you exchange your money with. If you try to get the money and don't care about what you're exchanging with, you will be in trouble. Because some people try to exchange money with peace of mind. Your family time, your quality time, your health . . . in exchange for money. So my question to you . . . is it worth it?” [14:37]
 
“No million dollar comes after you did that. A lot of people go after the money, but the money comes after your service. So just forget about how much money you make. It just comes in later, as a result of the quantity and the quality of the service you provided. So you don't have to worry about it. Because if you did the right way, if you did the right job, the money would come. So just focus on doing what what's great for a lot of people.” [22:12]

Having Fun In Business and in Life with Internationally Acclaimed Author, Kemi Nekvapil

Kemi believes that having fun in business is as important as having fun in life. Do you believe it? Whatever your answer may be, you  love this epic conversation with her! She is absolutely amazing and her stories are to die for! .
 
In this uplifting conversation with Kemi, we talked about depressed multi-millionaires and how they could get themselves out of their current situation and how they could reach the place where they would really want to be, wealthy AND peaceful, joyful AND fulfilled.
 
We talked about the importance of balance and self-awareness. We also talked about her incredible achievements and how little things in life made her feel fulfilled and happy,despite the horrendous  situations around her. And as an introvert, she shared how she was able to step up and play the bigger game.
 
Kemi is a hoot! Such an inspiration and she gave us a behind the scenes look at her book, P.O.W.E.R. You won’t want to miss this episode!
 
 
SHOW NOTES: 
 
00:00 - Introduction to Kemi
01:13 - The most fun thing that Kemi has ever done in her business
03:07 - About depressed multi-millionaires and what they could do
09:42 - The truth about being “successful”
12:37 - Getting a tattoo
14:47 - Pride and achievements
18:09 - Fulfilled by little things in life
23:51 - Leaving a legacy
26:00 - The turning point
31:48 - Levelling up as an introvert
40:48 - P.O.W.E.R.
45:30 - Let’s have fun!
 
 
QUOTES 
 
“If we don't have fun along the way, we're kind of missing the opportunities.” [01:38]
 
“The reality is . . . there are lots of depressed millionaires and there are lots of happy millionaires. And life happens to all of us regardless of what's in our bank account. I think regardless of what's in our bank account, the biggest gift is being self aware of who you are and what support you need around you at those times” [04:50]
 
“The businesses we create for ourselves come from who we are and our lived experiences.” [21:36]
 
“If you keep comparing yourself to others, you are never going to be happy.” [27:42]
 
“If I was basing my happiness on becoming something that I could never become, then I was destined for a life of being unhappy and never being enough.” [27:56]
 
“We all, everyone, regardless of our age, our background, our past narratives, we all have the power to do something.” [42:37]

From Bankruptcy to Impacting Millions With Profit First’s Author, Mike Michaelowicz.

In this inspiring episode of The Happy Millions Show, we sit down with Mike Michaelowicz, bestselling author of Profit First. Mike shares his personal story of losing millions, and then having to face his daughter with shame as she offered her piggy bank money to him to make things better.
But rather than let this experience defeat him, Mike turned it into a powerful lesson and developed the Profit First system. He talks about the importance of prioritizing profit over revenue and provides practical tips on how entrepreneurs can implement this system in their own businesses.
Don't miss this candid conversation with Mike Michaelowicz, a true leader in the world of entrepreneurship and profitability.
 
Show Notes:
00:00 - Introduction to Mike Michaelowicz
01:21 - How did it feel for Mike Michaelowicz to lose it all, then to come back?
06:22 - Million-dollar revenue is NOT going to change your world.
12:04 - The most costly mistake of entrepreneurs
15:17 - Entrepreneurial depression
21:54 - Happiest moments as an entrepreneur
23:34 - A message for entrepreneurs
Quotes:“More revenue a company has, the more stress on the organization, and in a small business.” [06:38]
“Most businesses that are selling are trying to grow and are not scaling. And there is a distinct difference. Growth is not scaling.” [07:01]
“Growing is where we have to do more to get more, work harder, work longer, bring on more people hire, grow, push. Scaling is where we do less to get more efficiency, resource utilization, specialization, prioritization, those elements.” [07:11]
“As you make more sales, there's more stress in the organization, you become more precarious in your position, the potential collapse is coming and it is deep.” [07:29]
“What I strongly encourage people to do is, let's focus on not how much we're making, but how much we're taking. Let's not worry about the vanity of revenue, let's worry about the sanity, of profitability.” [07:44]
“Don’t try and change who you are, it’s a battle with yourself that you’re not going to win… instead, let’s channel your habits into successful ones.” 
“I believe we need to channel our habits, not change our habits. Channel means if you're doing something already, chances are you can be really good at keep doing that. We have sustainability. So let's not change who we are. But let's put systems or intercepts in the path of our behavior.” [12:35]
“Writing a journal and writing your actual thoughts out is the cheapest form of effective therapy.” [18:14]