The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny

Finding Different Types of Love As Entrepreneurs With Amber Kelleher-Andrews

“It's not the money that makes them happy. The money is the result of being happy with what you do. So when I hear Happy Millionaire, I hear Self-made Millionaire.” Beautiful words from this episode’s guest, Amber Kelleher Andrews!
 
Amber is an amazing relationship matchmaker, who is the co-founder and CEO of Kelleher International, one of the largest matchmaking firms in the US.
 
Inthis episode, we talked about the different types of love as entrepreneurs, the importance of being authentic, healing from past and hidden traumas, and how love and authenticity will make us happy millionaires.
 
Make sure to tune in to this incredible podcast episode with Amber!
SHOW NOTES: 
00:00:00 Introducing Amber Kelleher-Andrews And Her Family Business
00:07:03 Helping People Find Different Types Of Love
00:07:59 Entrepreneurs That Have Partners Wired In An Incompatible Way
00:12:53 The Start Of The Love Match Process
00:16:04 Victimization and Entitlement 
00:21:28 Amazing Amber’s Superpowers
00:24:37 Reading With Eyes Closed
00:26:49 Authenticity As A Key Player To Be A Happy Millionaire
00:29:00 About Healing Of Past Trauma
00:30:40 Hypnotherapy In Healing Hidden Trauma
00:32:20 Fast Q&A
QUOTES
00:06:50 “I think we, as entrepreneurs, wanna be able to be ourselves. We want to be able to express ourselves in as many ways as humanly possible.
 
00:11:09 “It's not the money that makes them happy. The money is the result of being happy with what you do. So when I hear Happy Millionaire, I hear Self-made Millionaire.”
 
00:13:59 “If they're unwilling to look at themselves, if they're unwilling to learn, then they're probably not gonna make a great client. Because we have to go on the journey with them. And we're going back and forth in the feedback. We're finding out what they liked, what they didn't like, and why. And if they're unable to have that conversation and do self-reflection, then we're not gonna get anywhere.”
 
00:25:44 “Believe in love. Love should be at the center of everything that we do. Love works.”
 
00:26:12 “You have to love yourself before you can love another, and then you share.”
 
00:27:03 “I think authenticity is really important and we look for that when we're first talking to somebody on the phone . . . Because if they are not an authentic person, they probably aren't very good at being able to articulate what part they're playing in the relationship.”
 
00:28:05 “If you are attracting somebody that breaks your heart when you're open and authentic, then you're not truly being authentic enough to yourself because that person should not have come into your realm. So it's not about ‘I'm gonna close myself so I can't get hurt. It's about why am I still not truly authentic to myself? Why am I truly not getting this yet?’"

Access Your Consciousness with Dain Heer

“For every conclusion, every decision, every judgment you make, nothing that doesn’t match that conclusion, judgment or decision can come through.” - Dain Heer
 
Powerful words from a very Happy Millionaire. Has his life always been happy? No. He has created happiness and light in his own world by embracing his own consciousness and being and helping others to do the same. 
 
Dain Heer is a best-selling author, change-maker, speaker, creator of International Being You Day, and the co-creator of Access Consciousness, one of the largest personal development movements practiced in 176 countries around the world. 
 
We are sitting down to chat about a hodgepodge of things, not the least of which is his story and how he went from considering taking his own life to helping others find beauty and happiness in theirs. Dain empowers others to harness their gifts and their brilliance in order to impact the world in big and meaningful ways. 
 
Listen in as we chat about entrepreneurship and why it’s so important that you embrace the KAPOW ideal in whatever way it speaks to you!
SHOW NOTES: 
 
 
0:00:00 Introducing Dain Heer
0:02:43 A Journey to Happiness: Dain’s Experience of Overcoming Invalidation and Depression
0:07:54 Conversation About Our Identity and The Power of Being Different
0:13:38 Exploring the Weight of Lies and The Need for Authenticity in Entrepreneurial Communities
0:18:02 How Congruence and Open-Ended Questions Create Space for Change
0:21:19 Keys That Help Struggling Entrepreneurs
0:30:20 Conversation on Quantum Physics
0:34:07 Being The Fullest, The Highest and Most Fulfilled Version of Themselves
0:36:15 The Impact of Self-Judgment and Fear of Judgment on Personal Growth
0:40:53 Are You Placing Too Much Significance on Judgment?
0:46:45 Neutrality Doesn’t Mean Numb
0:50:30 Setting Boundaries and Navigating Life Decisions
0:56:21 A Turnaround Story of Mompreneur
1:01:37 Fast Talk Q&A
QUOTES
 
 
“I would say if the identity requires that much effort to grasp and reach for, it's not truly us being us. And the easiest and the most challenging thing in the world is for us to truly be us.”
“When people say you're weird, the proper response is, thank you very much, and they go, It wasn't a compliment. And I go, if you knew what it was, if you knew what it actually meant, it actually is, thank you very much.”
“We actually navigate the world energetically. We are energetic beings. First and foremost. Energy is our first language.”
“Your point of view creates your reality.”
“If they can maintain their connection to the struggle or the trauma that they experience, the abuse they experience, whatever it was, then they'll know when it's around the corner so they can avoid it.”
“It is possible to transform your reality, to transform your day to day, living, breathing perspective. Part of what it requires, though, is the courage and the vulnerability to make a leap into experiencing your reality differently.”
“If you're living a life where your primary concern is other people's judgments, are you truly living?”
“You get what your point of view dictates that you should get. And one of the things I'm grateful for about access is the ability to change your point of view. When you realize it's a limited point of view, you have the ability to change that point of view so it no longer haunts you that way because it shouldn't.”
“Neutral doesn't mean numb. Neutral means being able to look at something and go, I choose this and I'm not reacting to that.”
“If we're resisting and reacting to the world around us, then we're always in a state of trying to fight against the world to get things done, get things created. If we're aligning and agreeing all the time, everybody else's point of view becomes more valuable to us than ours.”

Feed Your Mind and Find Happiness with Darren Stephens

SUMMARY: 
 
Happiness and success are not defined by the number of zeros in your bank account. If you became an entrepreneur to have greater control over your life and time, and then you cede that control to your business, did you really succeed? 
 
Darren Stephens is a self-made millionaire and is a seasoned business executive entrepreneur, growth strategist, bestselling author, and consultant. For more than 20 years, Darren has taught internationally, speaking to and motivating thousands of people in over 27 countries on how to create business, personal and financial success. 
 
His ability to help others find their true path through neuro linguistic programming, hypnosis and human design has helped transform his career and also the lives of those he’s helped. 
 
In fact, I’m one of those people. I’m not a huge fan of public speaking and just before stepping onto a huge stage, Darren treated me with hypnosis and I knocked that speaking gig out of the park. 
 
Darren joins me to chat about what it means to truly be successful and why the happiest millionaires are the ones who operate in their purpose. No matter if you’re religious or spiritual, the universe knows what you need. You simply have to ask!
 
Listen in to hear all of his amazing insights and get a better idea of what it takes to be a happily successful millionaire. Here’s to living life authentically and being real, raw, and honest!

Overcoming Adversity and Finding Happiness In Life and Business With The Award Winning CEO, Mother And Wife, Ann Kaplan

Ann Kaplan is the CEO and President of iFinance Canada Inc. In this new podcast episode, Liz Benny and Ann Kaplan discussed networking, overcoming adversity, listening to life’s whispers, adapting to changes in business, and more! They also talked about the different key traits in order to achieve your goals and dreams, both in life and in business.
Ann shared what made her say “yes” to be in The Happy Millions Show Podcast and how her experiences in life made her who she is right now.
This episode is especially for entrepreneurs in pursuit of their dreams and happiness and working moms thriving for success! 
 
 
SHOW NOTES: 
 
 
0:01:28 Anne Kaplan in creating her network0:02:44 Conversation about courage and preparedness0:04:26 Intuition: How do you know that “IT” is for you?0:05:46 Why she agreed in being in The Happy Millions Show Podcast0:08:13 What Ann wants to be best known in the world for0:10:04 Going for what makes you happy and living off your values0:14:01 Overcoming adversity; Thriving through divorce0:15:50 The power of mindset: Finding happiness and success in business0:17:38 What Ann loves the most in her business0:19:57 Owning your values and listening to life’s whispers0:23:07 Self-awareness and adapting to change in business0:27:53 Message for people who are in the pursuit of other people's dreams0:30:13 Joys of Motherhood and Marriage0:36:16 Reflections on Life Experiences and Decisions0:37:52 Fun Q&A with Ann Kaplan0:42:42 A Message to Working Moms
 
QUOTES
 
 
”I believe strongly that it takes a little bit of self-awareness, but it takes hard, hard work. And you know that nothing can get in the way but yourself. You can be driven because you get out of your own way and you just keep running. And I think if I'm not going to make it, it's only me that I have to blame. And if I make it, I can pat myself on the back.”
 
 
“Happy is something that I live happy. I actually choose to be happy. And I tell my kids it's a choice to be happy.”
 
 
“You go for everything that makes you happy and you get out of your own way. I think the people that go for what makes them happy, but also they live their life on their values.”
 
 
“It takes understanding the business, it takes understanding opportunities, more than that. But if you are confident in your business approach and you've done the work, yes, I do think that in business, you have to get the lay of the land too.”
 
 
“I started from nothing and literally nothing, and but I never looked at where we were going or where we were. It was just keep moving on, keep making change, keep going, keep going. Keep the cost down. And it was focus and hard work. It was not easy, but it was not hard.”
 
 
“I think whatever statement you have that comes out of your mouth, you own it. Don't pull back and say sorry. Make sure that you understand the person. Speak from your values and state things that mean something to you . . . If you're going to call a name to somebody, if you're going to do something, own that, don't do something and then go back and say I'm really sorry I said that, I wasn't thinking in the moment.”
 
 
“I'm proud of recognizing that change has to happen if you want to be ahead in business.”

How To Live Life 100% True To You with Internationally Renowned Dr. John Demartini

Dr. John DeMartini, an internationally published author, global educator, and the founder of a revolutionary tool in modern psychology stated boldly on this show “Your core values are represented by the life you live”.
 
When you hear that statement, what comes up for you? Many people think they know what is important to them, but then feel unfulfilled in their life and business. If that’s the case, then you aren’t truly living and working from your true values.
 
This ONE podcast can CHANGE your LIFE… !!
 
Dr. John Demartini’s mission and vision is to share knowledge and wisdom that empowers you to become a master of your own life and destiny. He joins me to share his thoughts on determining your core values, why that’s the first step to finding true fulfillment, and why he doesn’t believe in labeling people as a whole. Every word he speaks has power, if you listen and implement what he has to say.
 
We also explored the truth about being dyslexic and why it should be called a “gift” rather than a “curse.“”
 
Also, if you’ve been floundering under the weight of comparison or feeling unmotivated and unable to make positive steps forward, listen in and find out why.
 
Nothing is missing in you. Stop letting comparison hold you back.
 
Enjoy the show!
 
Show notes:
 
0:00:00 Dr. DeMartini’s Mission and Vision
0:02:04 A Message For Off-Kilter Entrepreneurs About Scaling Their Business and Building Lives They Love
0:11:16 Understanding What Your Personal Values Really Are
0:15:16 Definition of Void, How It Affects Our Life, and How To Fulfill It
0:18:31 Value Changes and Empowerment in Life and Business
0:22:00 How To Leave An Impact To The World
0:23:40 Moments You Are Most Proud Of
0:26:14 Contextualization of Labels and Personality Types
0:28:49 Exploring The Benefits of Living In Alignment With Your Highest Values
0:34:40 A Conversation With A Successful Entrepreneur 
0:39:06 Exploring Dyslexia as a Gift
0:44:19 Mindfulness And Living To Our Fullest Potential
0:46:10 Overcoming Fear of Public Speaking
0:50:28 Fast Talk: 14 Questions
0:57:42 How to Create a Business and Life You Absolutely Love
 
Quotes
 
0:10:18 “As long as you do low priority things you're going to devalue yourself.”
 
0:12:28 “What people do is they have a fantasy about what they want, but their life demonstrates what they really want. And so your hierarchy of values dictates your destiny and determines how you make decisions.”
 
0:13:42 “You got to start with an honest evaluation and true introspective of what you really value to start the ball rolling. Because if you need motivation to do what you say is important, what you say is important isn't truly important to you.”
 
0:17:37 “Part of the voids come from judgments that are conscious and unconscious splits. Because if you're conscious of things, you're infatuated with the positives and you're unconscious of the negatives, you're going to look up to it. If you're conscious of the negatives and unconscious of the positives, you're going to look down on it.”
 
0:30:17 “If I try to envy somebody else, imitate somebody else subordinate to somebody else's value system and expect to live outside my own core structure, I'm going to self depreciate. I'm going to hesitate. I'm going to procrastinate. I'm going to end up depreciating because I'm not living by what's true to me.”
 
0:30:37 “Unless you shift the values, which you can do if you try to live outside your highest values, you're automatically designed to self depreciate to get you frustrated enough to get you back on highest values and delegate the rest away.”
 
0:36:27 “If you give something and they make a perfectly fair, sustainable exchange equity theory, you maximize your fulfillment level. And you'll also not be narcissistically proud looking down, which is a facade, or altruistically looking up, which is a facade, you'll just be yourself. You'll be grateful. There's no pretense. You're just serving, doing what you love and being rewarded by it, and you feel grateful.”
 
0:37:30 “You're not going to avoid challenges, not going to avoid problems. You might as well select them and go after the ones that are deeply meaningful, that are inspiring for you to solve and help. And if you do, your fulfillment level will be up and you won't have distress. You'll have youth stress, which is wellness promoting, because now you're pursuing challenges that inspire you, which maximizes innovation, creativity and genius inside you. You have all those waiting to emerge, nothing's missing in you.”
 
0:41:18 “It's not an issue unless you make it an issue.”
 
0:44:42 “Let's own our hero and villain, our saints and our sinner, our virtues and our vices. Let's own it all. So nobody pushes our buttons on the outside that we have to seek or avoid. And we get to be present and exemplify our fullest potential with mindfulness.”
 
0:45:03 “Your mission is always an expression of what you value most.”
 
0:45:07 “And the only thing that clouds it is all the injected expectations from outer authorities that you've subordinated to. We're not here to live in the shadows of somebody. We're not here to put people on pedestals or pets. We're here to put them in our heart, stand on their shoulders and do something extraordinary on planet Earth.”